Since I'm bored, I guess I'll go ahead and share the results of my eHarmony.com personality profile. I can't really verify its accuracy, but it does appear to be at least 70% accurate:


By analyzing your answers to the Relationship Questionnaire we have created the following Personality Profile. Everyone has a set of subconscious wants and desires that drive their choices and attitudes. By asking you questions about a wide range of emotional issues, this report has established general patterns in your values.

Some of the following information may seem inaccurate or incomplete. Remember, that this profile is a snapshot of your personality at a specific moment. It is not intended as an in-depth analysis of your complete being, but as a tool to aid in self-discovery.

* You show self-control in most things you do; you are not an extremist. Others may see you as stable, mature and steadfast.

* You tend to be a traditionalist, and will enjoy the social environment best if it is stable and predictable. You dislike sudden decisions about where to go or what to do, preferring to think things out first.

* Others may perceive you as being undemonstrative and self-controlled. Not wanting to be the center of attention, you generally support others.

* You are a good friend and are always willing to help those you consider to be your friends. You also show strong ties, and will be uncomfortable when separated from your friends for an extended period.

* You prefer a warm, friendly environment free of conflict and hostility. In that environment, you prefer reassurance of your involvement and self-worth.

* You tend to be loyal to others. Your loyalty shows in a variety of ways including your "staying power" with relationships and activities.

* You have a basic need to be supportive of others. You will agree with others, sometimes even if it's not what you really want.

* You may demonstrate positive possessiveness by developing strong attachments; however, you will not be overly involved as some others tend to do.

* Because of your lenient and complacent nature, others with fewer scruples may take advantage of you. You could, perhaps, benefit from greater assertiveness.

* You tend to dislike sudden or abrupt changes. You prefer things the way they are. Your motto might be: "If it's not broken, don't fix it."


Each person has a unique way of communicating. We use a combination of body language, facial expression, verbal tone and word choice to share ourselves with others. The following statements offer a look at the natural behavior you bring to an interpersonal relationship.

* You tend to be a good listener. Others may seek you out to share a thought or concern because of your empathic listening style.

* You are somewhat reserved in meeting new people. As a result, you could benefit from more assertive people doing the appropriate introductions to new people.

* In your group, you may support the group leader rather than vie for a leadership position yourself. As a result, the group leader will usually appreciate the support you bring.

* In communicating with others, you may support the mainstream ideas rather than new trailblazing activities. You may prefer the stable and traditional activities.

* You have a communications style which many people are comfortable with almost immediately. You are sincere, a good listener, not pushy and overall a comfortable person to be near.

* You may be less talkative than some others, but people will generally know how you are feeling by observing many nonverbal cues.

* Others will notice that you are a sincere person about what you say and do. This trait, along with the excellent listening skills, creates an individual whom most people find pleasant to be with and a calming type of person.

* You tend to internalize conflict. As a result, if something about another is bothering you, you may bottle-up feelings and keep them inside.


Many different factors determine the communication styles with which you are most comfortable. Some individuals thrive on the challenge of pointed criticism, while others are at their best in a nurturing environment where criticism is offered as a suggestion for improvement. Each of us has a unique set of requirements and preferences. Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.

* Take your time and proceed slowly.

* Move casually, informally.

* Be responsive toward ideas and commitments.

* Provide personal support and assurance.

* Ask "How" questions to draw out opinions.

* Prepare your "case" in advance--do your homework.

* Work to achieve mutual satisfaction.

* Listen sincerely.

* If you disagree, organize your thoughts before confronting your partner.

* Start with a personal comment to "break the ice."

* Find areas of common interest and involvement.

* If you agree, follow through with your end of the agreement.


Following are some of the specific strengths and/or personal characteristics that you bring to a relationship. These may form the foundations of many of your friendships and dealings with other people. Some will seem obvious, but you may be surprised by others. Take a moment to reflect on each and consider what role it may have played in your past successes, and even failures.

* You take pride in being very loyal to friends and family.

* You are skilled at being diplomatic with people in all settings.

* You tend to set and maintain very high standards for yourself.

* You tend to have very high values.

* You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.

* You tend to be an objective, careful evaluator of situations.

* You tend to be the "Anchor of Reality" in highly emotional situations.

* You are generally very patient with people.

* You are good at helping others people to reach their goals.

* You are very supportive of other people.

* You are skilled at finding practical solutions to complicated situations.

* You are good at making certain that even small details are taken care of.


In general, human beings are defined by their needs and individuals by their wants. Your emotional wants are especially important when establishing with whom you are compatible. While answering the Relationship Questionnaire you established a pattern of basic, subconscious wants. This section of the report was produced by analyzing those patterns. Our wants change as we mature and obtain our life goals. You may find it valuable to revisit this section periodically to see how your wants have changed.

You may want:

* An environment free from conflict or hostility.

* Things done "right" the first time.

* Scheduled activities with no haphazard or unplanned activity.

* Peace and harmony.

* Reassurance.

* Time and opportunity to weigh pros and cons of decisions.

* Time to react to new ideas and sudden change.

* A predictable environment with few surprises that are not "planned."

* Fewer changes, if many changes have occurred recently.

* Others to adhere to your high standards.